Empathy and understanding are undoubtedly crucial when it comes to building and maintaining relationships. However, it’s important to be aware of common phrases that may be used by individuals exhibiting narcissistic behavior.
Narcissists often employ a cunning tactic known as “love bombing” to ensnare their unsuspecting victims. They put on a facade of being the perfect partner, showering their target with gifts and affection. However, this is merely a ploy to gain control over their victim. Once they have secured their prey, the narcissist begins to gaslight and abuse them, causing the victim to question their own reality. This manipulative strategy is designed to give the narcissist complete domination over their victim.
After successfully luring in their victim, a narcissist’s true nature begins to emerge. Insults and put-downs become a common occurrence in their speech, aimed at shattering their partner’s confidence. Even things that were once appreciated about their partner are now criticized, all part of the narcissist’s scheme to maintain control.But the cruel behavior is often masked by moments of affection, as the narcissist knows they must maintain the illusion of a loving relationship. By alternating between cruelty and kindness, the narcissist manipulates their victim into believing the insults are their own fault.
While it’s worth noting that these phrases may not be applicable to all individuals I can provide you with a helpful list to keep in mind.
“It’s always about you, isn’t it?”
“You’re lucky to have someone like me.”
“You just don’t understand how amazing I am.”
“You’re so lucky I put up with you.”
“You’re overreacting, as usual.”
“You’re too sensitive.”
“You’re just jealous of me.”
“I’m the best at everything I do.”
“You should be grateful for everything I’ve done for you.”
“You’re so lucky to be with me.”
“I deserve better than this.”
“You’re nothing without me.”
“You’re so ungrateful.”
“You’re crazy if you think I did anything wrong.”
“You’re just trying to bring me down.”
“You’re too weak to handle the truth.”
“I can’t believe you would question me.”
“You’re just trying to control me.”
“You’re always trying to make me look bad.”
“You’re the problem, not me.”
“You’re just trying to manipulate me.”
“You’re so lucky I tolerate you.”
“Nobody else would put up with you.”
“You’ll never find anyone better than me.”
“You’re just trying to sabotage my success.”
“You’re just trying to make me feel guilty.”
“You should be thankful I’m with you.”
“You’re not capable of understanding me.”
“You’re just trying to play the victim.”
“You’ll never find someone as perfect as me.”